7 life lessons I learned while doing cool stuff in Maine

7 life lessons I learned while doing cool stuff in Maine

March 13, 20181819Views
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There’s no shortage of adventure in Maine – afternoon jaunts into the woods or on the water, via bicycle or sailboat, in helmet or in harness. It’s been my mission to try them all…eventually. Such exploits are simply fun, for one. They explode our comfort zones and broaden our horizons. And whether the adventure lasts a weekend or an hour, you’ll always have the memories, the helmet cam video, and the minor flesh wound that turns into a minor permanent scar. And you’ll learn some pretty cool things, like how to skeet shoot, work a trapeze, or win a toboggan-themed costume contest.

Over the years, I’ve also learned that I’m an okay skier, an excellent paddleboard jouster, and not trustworthy with a fly fishing rod. But I’ve gained some unexpected life lessons, too – sage words of adventurer’s advice that come in handy long after the crampons come off.

1. Look where you want to go

Cliff Krolick, owner of Back Country Excursions, and Liz Briggeman, novice mountain biker, tackle a mountain trail during a beginner's class back in 2009. Photo by Shannon Bryan
Cliff Krolick, owner of Back Country Excursions, and Liz Briggeman, novice mountain biker, tackle a mountain trail during a beginner’s class back in 2009. Shannon Bryan photo

Learned: Mountain biking lesson at Back Country Excursions, Parsonsfield

Everything in sight becomes a hazard when you’re learning how to mountain bike (a rock on the trail, a low-hanging branch, a hill). Never mind the trees that crowd the trail like over-eager bystanders at an illegal street race. During my beginner’s lesson a handful of years ago, I hit a couple of those trees (further deepening my appreciation for helmets and trails with wide berths).

Cliff Krolick, owner of Back Country Excursions and the expert in our pack, offered me some advice: “Wherever your eyes go, your bike will go. So don’t look at the trees, look between the trees. Look where you want to go.” It’s a lesson that serves riders well on heavily wooded mountain trails. But it translates to life at large, too. As in, don’t let your brain dwell on the worst case scenario or those passing peripheral distractions (trees, a rough patch at the office, a kerfuffle with a stranger in a grocery store parking lot). Look where you want to go and the rest of you will follow.

2. Take it one step at a time

(Or 15 miles at a time, as the case may be)

The finish line of the Trek Across Maine 2014. Shannon Bryan photo
The finish line of the Trek Across Maine 2014. Shannon Bryan photo

Learned: During the Trek Across Maine

180 miles in three days. It sounds wildly daunting, especially to a rider whose longest treks on two wheels generally hovered in the low double digits. But I had a friend who really wanted to do the Trek Across Maine – and she was hoping to have a cohort out there on the scenic (and sometimes hilly!) roads between Sunday River and the sea. So we both signed up. And we trained, of course, doing our best to log a couple 50-milers in the weeks leading up to the Trek.

But what really made all the difference was some advice I got from an experienced Trekker: Don’t keep thinking about 180 miles. There’s a rest area every 15 miles or so where you can rest, eat, recoup. So just think about doing 15 miles. 15 miles is so doable. Still, I wondered if I’d fatigue halfway through. I wondered if my legs (and butt) would be so sore from day one that I wouldn’t be able to ride on day two. I wondered if I’d end up hitching a ride to Belfast in a service vehicle (ducking low in the seat so as to not be spotted by my fellow riders).

None of those things happened. Sure, the first day was tough. It was cold and rainy, and some of those hills were – ahem – less than friendly to my quads. But mostly, it was stunning Maine and camaraderie and fluffernutters the whole way. My friend and I completed the ride with massive smiles and plenty of shouts and “Hell yes!” and high fives. Turns out those 15 miles really add up.

3. It’s totally impossible, except it isn’t

Almost. To. The. Finish! Photo courtesy Jill Newell

Learned: In the Atlantic

I remember hearing about the annual Peaks to Portland swim for the first time and thinking, “Dang. That’s quite a feat for those insanely athletic, experienced, and buoyant people.” It wasn’t an adventure I’d ever be able to tackle. I couldn’t swim, first off, and it’s Casco Bay for wetsuit’s sake! You can’t even see the bottom! But then I found myself in a pool alongside other novice swimmers in a sheJAMs swim class, each of us learning how to put our faces in the water, breathe to the side, and not drown. And then I was in a wetsuit in a lake improving my stroke, spotting my course, and staying calm even when my hand touched a piece of underwater foliage that momentarily felt like it was going to bite. And then I was standing at the Peaks to Portland finish line – big grinned and dripping with saltwater – disbelieving what I’d just done, not because it was some impossible feat, but because it was so, so possible all along.

4. Don’t look back

Standing at the summit of the Beehive Trail at Acadia National Park. Shannon Bryan photo

Learned: Hiking the Beehive Trail, Acadia National Park

I’m not afraid of heights. At least I’m not afraid of heights any more than the next person. But ledges? Exposed mountainside ledges that overlook a steep, painful plummet? Yea, I’m afraid of those. The first time I tried hiking the Beehive Trail at Acadia National Park, I made the mistake of turning around to look. Then I had a panic attack, dove for a nearby tree, engaged a death grip on the trunk, and insisted I wasn’t budging until the chopper arrived to fly me to safety. (Ultimately my cohort talked me into going down the way we came up.)

After three years of private shame, I went back. This trail – with its precarious perches and railless ridges – would not defeat me twice. So I hiked up, and I looked forward. And I kept moving and looking forward and stepping and reaching until the top. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge advocate of stopping to take in the scenery. But sometimes looking back prevents you from going forward (and missing the scenery at the summit).

5. Swing like you mean it

Ice Climbing in Bar Harbor with Acadia Mountain Guides. Holly Twining photo

Learned: Ice climbing with Acadia Mountain Guides Climbing School

Ice isn’t doughy or pillow-like or easy to hold onto. That’s why people who climb ice have axes. But here’s the thing about an axe: It’s only as good as your swing. You can’t gently place an axe into ice. You can’t be delicate or passive or meek with your swing, apologizing along the way for being a burden and promising to be out of the way as soon as you can. The ice won’t accommodate you. It won’t soften its surface to welcome your tools and it certainly won’t give you a boost, even if you’re super polite about it. Rather, you’ve got to swing like you mean it. Make your axe heard! (And zero apologies, please.)

6. You can succeed and still end up floating in a river next to a pile of wet cardboard

 The carboard boat during its inaugural - and only - voyage in 2011. Video still
The carboard boat during its inaugural – and only – voyage in 2011. Video still

Learned: Cardboard Boat Races, Saco River

Several years ago, the Dyer Library/Saco Museum planned a Cardboard Boat Race in conjunction with a summers worth of Tom Sawyer-themed activities. I decided to write a story about it, and I decided that, if I were going to write a story about building a cardboard boat, I needed to try building a cardboard boat myself. So I did.

With no previous watercraft-building experience whatsoever, I constructed a boat made entirely of cardboard and duct tape. I took it to the Saco River. I got in it. And I paddled. Fast forward several minutes and the pile of wet cardboard formerly known as “Boxed Swine” was floating in the river next to me, and I was without a boat. “So it sank?” people ask. Well, yes, it sank. Eventually. But I also managed to paddle it successfully down the river for several minutes, much to the confusion of the other paddlers on the water. And my boat was made of cardboard! I had no idea what I was doing, but I gave it a go anyway. It was a bonus that it stayed afloat, if only for a little while. (Frankly, it was a lot longer than I thought it would.)

7. You will fall. Repeatedly

Eugene Cole photo
Standing up for a few glorious seconds after many surfboard tumbles during a Mom’s Morning surf lesson in 2010. Eugene Cole photo

Learned: Surfing lesson with Aquaholics, Kennebunk

I took a surfing lesson a few years back. Not surprisingly, I fell. Repeatedly (and not gracefully). Luckily I was in good company. There were two dozen other novice wave-catchers in the water during that Mom’s Morning surf lesson at Gooch’s Beach. Sure, most of us eventually managed to stay upright on the longboard for a few seconds of triumph, the small waves breaking behind us like churned-up dust behind Greek charioteers. But on the whole, we were backflopping and nose diving in quick succession. We could have felt ridiculous if we compared ourselves to the experienced surfers catching waves with ease nearby, or if we expected perfection the first, second, or tenth time out. But we felt empowered – even as we tumbled. And our efforts might have looked like an exercise in futility to the gulls and passing beach walkers, except we were all having a blast. Why? Falling is part of the learning – meaning, if you’re falling, you’re probably smack dab in the middle of learning something wonderfully new and weird and not easy to master. And that’s downright admirable.

The point here?

This is Maine. Do stuff. Look ridiculous. Let curiosity get the best of you. Maybe you’ll become a master of mattress racing, storytelling, or sailing. Or maybe you’ll just have a good time trying.

Shannon Bryan

Shannon Bryan

I don't like "exercise" any more than you do. But you know what I do like? Paddleboarding with a friend all afternoon (and then sitting in the grass to drink chardonnay). Bike rides and nachos, hikes, yoga classes held in breweries, group paddles to Fort Gorges, you get the idea. Because Maine is my gym.